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Our comparison topic started with a search for a polite distinction between italics and the other kind of italics. We were searching for a way to describe the ones that some of us prefer because we have studied italics and prefer some subtle nuances. Scarlet suggested comparing a good quality cotton with cheap polyester.
Then Scarlet offered silver and stainless steel as a comparable. I'm fine with ditching fabrics and looking for something else. The sterling/stainless example doesn't fly with me for a couple reasons. We'll pick up that thread at a later date.
We will also remind ourselves that *comparison is the thief of joy.* We are searching for a comparison that is the exception to that rule. We are trying to find a distinction between two things that has a preference for one of them without casting aspersions on the other.
So here's the comparison that is frequently used by calligraphers and the one I should have started with. Dancing. We are not talking about the aesthetics - there are probably people who prefer the Hokey Pokey to ballet - so we won't suggest that ballet is the pinnacle of dancing. We can use folk dancing as the thing that has something to offer that the Hokey Pokey does not. It seems like any folk dance compared to the Hokey Pokey would elicit opinions that a folk dance has *something* that the Hokey Pokey does not.
Sometimes I call that *something* finesse. But I'd be happy to find a different word. Maybe we are suggesting that the Hokey Pokey is rudimentary. Maybe the word we are looking for is a very current buzz-word - basic. I think basic has been trending as a word that says *meh* - since it seems like we don't hear *meh* as much these days.
Perhaps there is someone out there who thinks the Hokey Pokey is better than all other dances. We will respect that opinion. We might ask more questions of the people who put Hokey Pokey at the pinnacle because someone who takes that stand might be a very interesting person with a very interesting story. Sometimes we get curious about those people who are way out on the tip of a bell curve or a spectrum.... like the flat-earthers. I bet they like the Hokey Pokey.