pushing the envelopes
decorated envelopes, mail art, lettering ideas
Friday, May 29, 2026
May to Judi
Thursday, May 28, 2026
May to Patty - joining a group
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Here's something a bit off the wall for the new people who have joined the exchange. Once again, I have no idea if they read the blog - but it was an interesting tidbit. It was in the newsletter from Eric Barker who wrote the book Plays Well With Others which was recommended to me by someone. After reading it, I wondered if that person was hinting that I did not play well. But, I digress.
I did enjoy the book enough to sign up for the author's monthly newsletter. Even though most of my playtime is virtual, I'm interested in being a good pen pal friend. His latest newsletter included many tips. I might post about some of the others.
This tidbit about a possible reward from joining a group jumped out at me:
As political scientist Robert Putnam put it, “Your chances of dying over the next year are cut in half by joining one group.” An analysis of 148 studies with more than 300,000 participants basically backed him up.
I'm not a big fan of studies that make these kinds of claims. But, I also see a benefit in having some connections. I respect that many of us are not looking for actual groups. We're introverted in a nice way. So, for the new members of the exchange - I think the exchange counts as a group.
And if you don't like the exchange and drop out - that's OK. There are lots of other groups. Although this is one of the few that provides a fun experience when you check your mailbox.
Wednesday, May 27, 2026
May to Janet - content/process definition
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When I was closing computer windows, I saw a different link to info about the content/process topic and where it came from - and of course, I like that it mentions art:
The phrase "It's not the content, it's the process" does not have a single, definitive creator. Instead, it emerged as a key distinction in psychology, therapeutic practice, and organizational management to differentiate between what is being said or done (content) and how it is being done (process).
- Psychology/Group Therapy: This concept is rooted in group psychotherapy and organizational psychology. Experts often use it to indicate that the underlying dynamics, interactions, and emotional states of a group (the process) are more important than the specific topics they are discussing (the content).
- Education and Art: It is used to emphasize that the act of creating or learning (the process) holds more educational or personal value than the final product.
- The "Process" Philosophy: The sentiment is often associated with the idea that the journey and the methods used—rather than the end results—are what lead to lasting success or transformation
Tuesday, May 26, 2026
May to Irene - Good Writing
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Remember how I was hoping that my library would get a copy of Anne Lemott's new book, co-authored with her husband, called Good Writing - so that I could brush up on my writing for my readers? A day after I wrote that, voila, the library notified me that the book was ready for me to pick up. Apparently, I had put it on hold.... and forgotten about it.
I have not started it yet. I saw a blurb on the back of the book that referred to one of the tips - which is to write like yourself. That's not how it was worded - it's something about how you already have a voice, so use it. I'll be interested in that tip because I already know that my writing is 100% conversational.
So, it's 3 pm on Mother's Day and I am going to take a break from blog posts for a while. I'm also going to start my Judi-inspired envelopes. I have 22 to do in May. Ten of them are done and were done in one sitting of a couple hours. Maybe I can get 10 or 12 done today. Wish me luck.
*** It's 7 pm and I just finished the last 12. I've never kept track of time before. It looks like I spend an average of 15 minutes per envelope....
Monday, May 25, 2026
May to Juliana - content/process
Somehow I scheduled two posts for today.
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Yippee. It's still Mother's Day and I have filled up two weeks of blog posts so I can take a break after I finish this one. I said I would have more to say about: it's not the content, it's the process. I have no idea where I first heard about that. Whoever dished it up made it into something that really stuck in my head. I used it so much in teaching. It was not an easy concept to teach because people show up with their own ideas and notions and hard core beliefs. Why would they listen to me?
Maybe there are people who are drawn to experimentation. Maybe some of us truly enjoy figuring out problems. All I know is that if people will just dive in and try something and give it a chance, they might enjoy the experience. They might decide that they do not want to do it again. But, at least they will have learned something about their preferences.
And that brings us to the quitters. Some people hardly give it a chance. That's fine. I imagine there were things I tried where I could have done a better job, but I gave up. In all my years of teaching, I only had a couple people who dropped out. It made me sad because I could see they both had talent and skills. Maybe that's why they dropped out. If they had already had a bunch of really good teachers, I might have seemed too different from what they liked. I, too, have had teachers that were not to my liking. But, I always stuck with it - and managed to find just one little lesson that I could use.
That's my story and I'm sticking to it. Big news tomorrow about stories.
May to Amy - white gel pen hack
Here is a remedy to make gel pens *rejuicy* that I have not yet tried. If someone tries it and has success, please let me know.
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/F4grHGjajtU
Here is the person's main page if you need to avoid chores. Sadly, I am still doing battle with the weeds. My goal is to get things shaped up so that I can spend less time out there....
https://www.youtube.com/@RebelUnicornCrafts/shorts
Sunday, May 24, 2026
April from Juliana - synonyms for oddball
Saturday, May 23, 2026
April from Jackie - sports/non-sports
I read this post a couple days before it pops up and it needs editing - but that's not going to happen.
oddball(n.)
"eccentric or unconventional person," 1948, American English colloquial, from odd + ball (n.1). Earlier (1946) as an adjective, used by aviators. The phrase appears earlier in descriptions of modified pin-ball type games (1937) as an extra ball to be played as a bonus.
Friday, May 22, 2026
April from Riley - moderation > sports
Thursday, May 21, 2026
April from Nicky - planning > too much planning
Wednesday, May 20, 2026
April from Mia - weeds
Tuesday, May 19, 2026
April from Judi - planning?
Monday, May 18, 2026
April from Liz - more Perla
Sunday, May 17, 2026
April from Maggie - mysterious USPS mail
Saturday, May 16, 2026
April from Cliff
Friday, May 15, 2026
April from Kate - Wanda Gág
Thursday, May 14, 2026
April from Amy - Anne Lamott
Wednesday, May 13, 2026
April from Hadley - California sign painter
In this talk, Perla will share how lettering moves from design to wall,
focusing on scaling methods like pounce patterns, layout, and on-site
execution. Through process and experience, she offers a practical look
at what changes when letterforms leave the page and are built at scale.
After many years of appreciating super market signs and even the hand
lettered Home Depot signs, Perla Gallegos stumbled upon a "Paper
Signs for Grocery Stores" workshop with John Downer. She had always
assumed they were signs created by talented employees and that it wasn't
an actual JOB. She instantly fell in love with the craft and took another
workshop with Australian sign painter John King. Shortly afterwards
she took the leap and enrolled in the renowned Sign Graphics program
at Los Angeles Trade-Technical College (LATTC ), where she was
mentored by legendary instructors Doc Guthrie and Carlos Aguilar.
After leaving her career in architectural design, Perla launched
Superlative Signs to focus fully on sign painting and beautifying
business facades throughout Southern California. Specializing
in traditional, custom hand-painted storefronts, murals, gold leaf
gilding, window lettering for businesses such as restaurants,
retail, hospitality, creative spaces and everything in between!
https://superlativesigns.com/home where you will need to surf to see her work.
Here is IG - which I prefer - https://www.instagram.com/perla.g_lettering/
It was really hard to chose an image - there are so many styles. Even though they are mostly wall and window size, I see many that look like envelopes. These aren't even favorites - if I had time I would go back and change this photo - but - it's weeding season.
Tuesday, May 12, 2026
Another stack of mail that popped up